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		<title>My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee by Kaira Denee</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 03:20:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Miss Mikelah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine being publicly confronted by your husband&#8217;s lover. Only to be surprised that not only is he engaging in relations with this P.Y.T., but he&#8217;s engaging his heart &#8212; so enamored that he deemed it necessary to propose to this side chick&#8230;and yes, she had a rick to show for it!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine being publicly confronted by your husband&#8217;s lover. Only to be surprised that not only is he engaging in relations with this P.Y.T., but he&#8217;s engaging his heart &#8212; so enamored that he deemed it necessary to propose to this side chick&#8230;and yes, she had a rick to show for it!</p>
<p>Would you let him explain, give him the option to choose, or drop kick him like they do in Kung-Fu flicks?</p>
<p>Ok, maybe my intro was a bit dramatic, but on a serious note: Is it possible to love two people at the same time? That&#8217;s what author <a href="http://www.kairadenee.com/index.html">Kaira Denee </a>asked via twitter and got an overwhelming number responses sparking the intriguing plot of a messy threesome titled <strong>My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee.<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-495" title="HusbandCover" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/HusbandCover-192x300.jpg" alt="HusbandCover" width="192" height="300" /></strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Kimberly Rose is a career-driven reality television producer whose career has recently taken a slump. But when she witnesses a mistress confronting her lover and his wife in a crowded shopping mall, she immediately realizes she has the next reality show hit on her hands. Her show, My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee, is born. Kimberly&#8217;s personal life isn&#8217;t as successful as her career. Her past is filled with damaging secrets that still haunt her dreams.When her father&#8217;s health begins to decline, Kimberly&#8217;s mother can&#8217;t understand why she&#8217;s unaffected by the tragedy.&#8221;My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee&#8221; is the best reality show you will ever read! Tune in to see whether the husband chooses to stay with his wife or marry his mistress and whether Kimberly resolves her past demons and lets love into her life.</p>
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<p>I sat down Kaira to discuss her career and the inspiration behind her book.</p>
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<p><strong>Mikelah:</strong> As a writer how do you set yourself apart from other Urban fiction writers?<br />
<strong>Kaira: </strong>I always try to put something unique in each of my novels. With my first book, &#8220;Take it There&#8221; I wrote in an alternate ending. With &#8220;Sugar&#8217;s Daddy&#8221; I tried to cover what I thought was a topic that&#8217;s underexposed in urban literature with bi-polar disorder. Now, with &#8220;My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee&#8221; I wrote half of the book as episodes of a reality show. I try really hard to think of ways to stand out!</p>
<p><strong>M: </strong>The concept of the book is interesting, explain how you made it a realistic love triangle versus a sexual love triangle?<br />
<strong>K: </strong>Many times love triangles are portrayed as sexual trysts and I know that it isn&#8217;t always so. Sometimes affairs that start as sexually driven end up being more than that. When you cross that line with the right person feelings will develop.</p>
<p><strong>M:</strong> How would you feel if it were your husband in the situation?<br />
K: I would divorce him immediately! For me, its one thing to &#8220;slip up&#8221; and sleep with someone else (and even that&#8217;s pushing it!) but if he developed feelings of love for another woman, I can&#8217;t compete with that. I would walk away.</p>
<p><strong>M:</strong> Apart from a good read, do you think this will open up the discussion of complacent married couples who have lost the &#8220;fire&#8221; in their relationships?<br />
<strong>K:</strong> Absolutely! There&#8217;s an episode in the book that broaches this subject. There&#8217;s something that the husband, Eric, had wanted his wife, Mikelah, to do for years. But she wasn&#8217;t confident with her stretch marked body and never did it for him. Overall I think she just got too comfortable with him and thought she didn&#8217;t have to go that extra mile for her husband after ten years of marriage.</p>
<p><strong>M: </strong>As a happily married woman yourself, any advice to couples keeping the love going strong?<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>K:</strong> I think every marriage will hit a rough patch. In these times I think the number one thing to remember is adding a third person (an affair) to the equation will always make things worse. Keep the love going strong by dating the person you&#8217;re married to. Also, I think that it&#8217;s important to get all dressed up and sexy for your mate every now and then so they don&#8217;t forget that you still have it!<br />
<em>My Husband&#8217;s Fiancee is now availabe online at <a href="http://www.amazon.com/My-Husbands-Fiancee-Kaira-Denee/dp/0982245335/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1256093999&amp;sr=8-1">Amazon</a>, you can also catch more from Kaira Denee on her personal blog, <a href="http://www.idontliketheway.blogspot.com/">I Don&#8217;t Like the Way </a>and follow her on<a href="http://twitter.com/kairadenee"> twitter</a>.</em></p>
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		<title>Miss Mikelah&#8217;s VMA Spin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 16:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Miss Mikelah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So rather than give a bland review of the VMA&#8217;s I think my personal highlights and commentary are a little more interesting. Here are my top five entertaining moments with my spin on things:

1.) MJ Tribute &#8211; Madonna&#8217;s speech was longer than the actual performance. Good speech though. Did anyone else expect Janet to do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So rather than give a bland review of the VMA&#8217;s I think my personal highlights and commentary are a little more interesting. Here are my top five entertaining moments with my spin on things:<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-420" title="MTV Music Awards" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/assgrab-231x300.jpg" alt="MTV Music Awards" width="231" height="300" /></p>
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<p>1.) MJ Tribute &#8211; Madonna&#8217;s speech was longer than the actual performance. Good speech though. Did anyone else expect Janet to do more? I know I did. The tribute was HOT all around, I especially love the dance segment with Janet imposed next to Michael in Scream. Classic!<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-422" title="Janet" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Janet-300x225.jpg" alt="Janet" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>2.) Kanye bum-rushes Taylor Swift &#8211; WHY, where was security? We all know &#8211;and love Kanye&#8217;s antics&#8211; but he went a little overboard last night. This episode was entertaining to say the least, but Taylor Swift did not know how to react to his outbreak<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-421" title="Kanye West Interrupts Taylor Swift's VMA Acceptance Speech to Praise Beyonce" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/Kanye-West-Interrupts-Taylor-Swifts-VMA-Acceptance-Speech-to-Praise-Beyonce-300x300.jpg" alt="Kanye West Interrupts Taylor Swift's VMA Acceptance Speech to Praise Beyonce" width="300" height="300" /></p>
<p>3.) Lil Mama jumping on stage with Jay-Z and Alicia Keys &#8211; WTF! Again, where was security. Maybe now they&#8217;ll take her ass off of ABDC and put a real judge, with opinions that make sense.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-425" title="lil mama" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/lil-mama.jpg" alt="lil mama" width="281" height="211" /><br />
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<div style="margin: 0pt; text-align: center; width: 500px; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 12px;"><a style="color:#439CD8;" href="http://www.mtv.com/music/artist/jay_z/artist.jhtml" target="_blank">Jay-Z</a> &#8211; <a style="color:#439CD8;" href="http://www.mtv.com/music/" target="_blank">New Music</a> &#8211; <a style="color:#439CD8;" href="http://www.mtv.com/music/video/" target="_blank">More Music Videos</a></div>
<p>4.) Pink&#8217;s Acrobatics &#8211; I really like her performance, although it brought back circus memories, but that was hard to do and I respect her for it.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-423" title="pink" src="http://www.styleandvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/pink.jpg" alt="pink" width="281" height="211" /></p>
<p>5.) Lady Gaga &#8211; I just don&#8217;t know about this girl. I like her music &#8212; I even liked her performance &#8212; but her &#8220;style&#8221; is questionable. I think she creates a &#8220;I&#8217;m different&#8221; persona for the paparazzi, we get it you&#8217;re different! I think she&#8217;s trying to do what Madonna did in the early 90&#8217;s, but Madonna seemed more effortless, Gaga is just over the top.</p>
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<p><strong>The Twitter commentary from my tweeps during the show had me laughing, and made the show even better, here are some of my favorite tweets:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/MBtheREMIX">@MBtheREMIX</a> If Kanye runs up on Serena, she&#8217;s gonna shove a tennis ball down his throat.</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/HoneyMagazine">@HoneyMagazine</a> where is Kim Zolciak for best new artist?!!!</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/busymom">@Busymom</a> Lady Gaga better be careful. That getup might poke her face.</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com/cthagod">@cthagod</a> The audicity of Lil Mama getting on stage with Jay-Z and Alicia Keys</p>
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